I am a wife of a sex addict this is the worst thing I have ever experienced in my life it is so painful I don't even have the words to explain. My post is listed previously of my struggles with my husband. He has now contacted me to reconcile I am willing to reconcile with him and I am keeping the faith that all things are possible with God. I told him we can not reconcile as long as he keeps doing what he's doing. He has to agree to go to counseling. He has agreed to do this but I don't see him contacting a counselor he keeps saying he's going to come over to my house for us to sit down and go on the computer to find counselors together. But when that day comes he pushes it to another week and gets angry with me and says that what he's doing is a step in the right path and I don't see it that way. He's implying that I'm being pushy. And says that no one is dying and that it is not that serious. Am I being to pushy? I thought I am supposed to set healthy boundaries please help.