I was raised this way...

Submitted by CPS on Wed, 2006-01-25 18:28.
Hi, Since junior high it's been all about "look at that a*s", "can you get her?", "how many this weekend"? Rap video's, J-Lo, MTV, Beyonce and internet porn don't help the matter! Even though I'm a born again Christian of 7 years and have been FAITHFULLY married for 5 and a half years, I miss those late night "one-night stands" after a few beers. My eyes cannot resist a women's curvature. Mainly a women's big bottom but I also visually lust big breast as well (white, black, hispanic, etc..). How do you shake this??? I should because my wife is such a wonderful and beautiful person. We make a great partnership and couple but my sexual desires are getting more difficult to keep at bay! Is it natural for a man to be content with one woman sexually? Really?????? Church members and other people think I'm so good. I guess I am but I feel that I'm half a step away from sleeping with any women who would be willing to sleep with a married man. That sucks man. How do you shake this??????? It did NOT go away when I was born again (sorry I'm not cut from that kind of cloth)! God, are you up there???? Thanks for reading. Any help is appreciated!
Submitted by gerard f. on Wed, 2006-02-01 17:30.
I have experienced much of what you describe. Two questions...... What does your sponsor have to say about this? Where are you in your step-work? Working with a sponsor who guides me thru the steps answered for me the questions you are asking.