I have been dating this wonderful loving guy for almost a year. He asked me to marry him on New Years Eve. We have been busy planning our wedding which is coming up in May. I have always suspected him of having other girlfriends and each time I thought I would bust him,there turned out to be nothing to it. He works in Law Enforcement (Narcotics), so his phone goes off at all hours. He has recently started turning it off at night and being overly protective of it. I downloaded a keylogger for my home computer and discovered that the whole time we have been together, he has had an account at eharmony.com. I went into his account and found communications between him and several women. He has actually met one of these women and in her message she tells him she misses his touch. I confronted him and he said it was nothing. They went and ate one time and that was all that occoured. He then tells me he has a problem, he gets lonley at night when I work. He craves attention. I love him more than anything and I want to help him. I know he loves me,but I can't live like this. I want to believe him when he says nothing happened. I asked him to get help and he said he needed my help. He told me he deleted the eharmony account but he has not showed me proof yet. He also went and changed his passwords on his myspace and bank account.