I will be married 3 years in Valentin´s Day.  Sure you think I will be happy, but I am depress for the last four months, when by casuallity I found out that my husband was cheating on me.  At the beginning I couldn´t believe what I was hearing in the tape recorder, he mostly of the time, was taking about sex experiences the day before, in his own words, " last nigh"and "morning sex" but it wasn´t with me.  In some recorders I heard it, he was very descriptive, talking about how he make the love to her and how good he felt after that.  One recording I had to heard again and again because I couldn´t understand what was going on with a noise similar to clap, so I improve the volume and balance and I almost die.  It was him having sex in our house, when I was drinving a taxi half mile from the home.  I heard the woman coming and saying How good she feels.......that was not all, it was the start.  The majority of the time I felt real alone, so I used to beg him   take me to your job, anyway he had to drive sometimes 2 hours to be there.  Never happened.  So I put the recorder in the car.  Same stuff.  He pick up a woman and start asking for sex all the way to the job and the same when he was on the way back to the house.  I was dispair and crying all the time but I couldn´t talk to him.  I knew he will denied.  So I decide to take a trip to my country and it is when I told him about the tape recorder.  I don´t know how much it will help us to go to the Sex and co-addict meetings.  I would have to go back to Ga, and I ´m not sure about that.  I have peace here, but I love him!! and we have plans for the future together, but I don´t know what to do, when I heard from his mouth ( in the recorder) that he has so many women that are pretty good.  Please help me.