Pray for us

Submitted by Kathy on Mon, 2008-05-05 23:51.

hello Friends

i think I am a love & relationship addiction. I am no doing so good tonight. I am depress. I have to abandonment my S.A. husband and I really love Him.

i think that after the first impact (when I discovered the true), it was real hard!!! to know that he was a sex addict. With the time, I learned how to keep loving him. Always is a new way to know how much you can love someone. For that reason, I said for all the people involved in this problem like a wife, husband, friend, etc. Please, think about that. Think twice. Put in the shoes, in the childhood. They were handling emotional problems like us, but in different way. Now I have to go back to my country for my children. I have to loss him. That's hurt me real bad. Please, help all the people you can, like S.A.: friends, family, etc

If you do that, you don't know but probably you are helping my husband and if you help him, that means for me, that you are helping me.

Thank you a lot for let me share

 

Submitted by kaywi on Tue, 2008-05-06 21:03.
Kathy I admire you very much very sharing your story with us and your strength. I am a love addict myself or the right term is co-dependent. It is so hard to let go when you love someone. I am not trained at this by any means but my husband is a sex addict and it is the hardest thing to deal with it. My entire church has been affected by it. But I like you have chosen to let my husband go as well but he is welcome to come back if he seeks counseling. My son and I have been at my home alone he moved out and abandoned us for his sexual addiction. I pray that all is well for you and that God will provide and protect you. This is a blessing not the end God allowed this to happen to allow us to not depend on other people for our happiness but to look to Him for our strength. The father loves you and has not abandoned you, He only wants you love him back. He has a plan and a purpose it is all in His control.