despair

Submitted by Kathy on Wed, 2008-11-19 09:31.

Hi Everybody

I am a wife of a sex addict and I am dispair because we have a crazy relation.  Sometimes he is mad for nothing and others he is funny. His moods change too much.  I reconized I am addcited to love and relationship, I am interesed just in him but I know well he likes to be with whoever gave him a change to have sex.  He denied his problem but I am very conscious about that, beginning for the fact that we don't have any social life.  No friends, no family, nothing.  We are very isolated, I begged him to go out on weekends to somewhere, you know, theathers, reataurants, dance, etc and in all this years, he always find an excuse for don't do it. So we expend all the time in the house. I am very active and I enjoy going out, at least once a month, but he never want.  He said I am jelous, but he is more.  If somebody look at me, or I look at somebody, he thinks that sex is going on.  He accused me once that I was watching the crotch of one of his friends.  Nothing more away from the reality.  I never being interesed in watch that part of the men body.  I am very insecurity in my relation ship and I would like to know if the sex addition destroy forever the relations ship.  I would like to know why reason he always is interesed in find new chances for have sex if he loves me to much like he said. I don't now if that is posible,

Thanks for share